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Expats Chronicles


Embracing Change: The Psychology of Reinvention for Expats in Amsterdam
Relocating to Amsterdam isn’t just a change of address — it’s an invitation to rediscover who you are. Between the first awkward Dutch...


Integrating Mindfulness into Daily Expat Life: A Guide for American Expats in Amsterdam
Life abroad can move fast: navigating new routines, languages, social circles, and work cultures. Amid the excitement and challenges,...


Coming Out Again: The Experience of Gay Expats in Amsterdam
Coming out is often seen as a one-time event—a moment of courage, self-acceptance, and liberation. But for many gay men, especially those...


Perfectionism & People‑Pleasing: Finding Balance as an Expat in Amsterdam
Arriving in Amsterdam as an American expat often means trading the high‑octane hustle of U.S. culture for Dutch calm—and that contrast...


Coming Out to Yourself Abroad: Self‑Discovery for LGBTQ+ Expats in Amsterdam
Moving abroad often feels like stepping into a new chapter of your life — and for many LGBTQ+ expats, it sparks a powerful journey of...


Navigating Dutch Emotional Reserve: Finding Authentic Connection in Amsterdam
When you first dive into Amsterdam’s social scene—invites to borrels, casual coffees, or canal-side strolls—you might notice a calm...


Staying Close from Afar: Family Bonds for American Expats in Amsterdam
Moving to Amsterdam as an American expat often means trading physical proximity for possibility. But no matter how fulfilling life abroad...


Work Culture Clash: Navigating Dutch vs. American Workplace Norms
For American expats in Amsterdam, the Dutch work culture can be both refreshing and frustrating. On the one hand, the Netherlands is...


Training Your Filter: Shifting Focus to What You Can Control
In the whirlwind of thoughts—whether about food, urges, or life’s challenges—it’s easy to feel swept away by every impulse. As someone...


From Regret to Resilience: How Therapy and a Growth Mindset Shift the Story
Most of us carry a few quiet regrets—decisions we replay in our heads, wondering if we acted too soon, waited too long, or missed a...


Exploring Gender Identity: Navigating Affirmation and Belonging in the Netherlands
For transgender and non-binary expats, exploring gender identity is deeply personal and, at times, complex. Expats in the Netherlands...


The Power of Ritual: Daily Anchors for Expats in Amsterdam
Expat life in Amsterdam can feel exhilarating and disorienting at once. Between navigating the local language, adapting to Dutch norms,...


The Role of Shame in Gay Men’s Mental Health: Breaking the Cycle
Shame is a powerful emotion — one that can quietly shape the way we see ourselves, our relationships, and our place in the world. For...


Making Room for Growth: Harnessing the Cascade of Positive Changes as an Expat
When we embrace a new mindset—one that welcomes growth over perfection—we open space for unexpected, life‑affirming shifts. As an expat...


Taming Your Inner Critic on Your Expat Journey
You’ve done it! You navigated the bureaucracy, landed the job, and built a new life in Amsterdam. From the outside, you are the picture...


Navigating Relationship Transitions: Support for Expats in Amsterdam
Relationships shape our sense of belonging and identity. As an expat living in Amsterdam, you may experience your connections in new...


Beyond 'I'm Fine': The Expat's Guide to Voicing Your Needs
As an expat in Amsterdam, you quickly master the art of the casual check-in. "How are you settling in?" a colleague asks. "Great,...


The Emotional Backlog: Why Busy Expats Can't Outrun Their Feelings
Life as an expat in Amsterdam is a whirlwind. Between navigating a demanding career, building a new social circle, and adapting to the...


Setting Down the Shield: When Old Survival Strategies No Longer Serve You Abroad
For many of us, the person we are today was forged in the fires of our past. We learned how to be resilient, how to protect ourselves,...


Anxiety: Why Your Internal Alarm Gets Stuck
It’s the constant hum beneath the surface—a feeling of unease as you navigate a packed social calendar, a racing heart before a high-stakes meeting, or a sense of dread that settles in on a quiet Sunday evening. For many expats in Amsterdam, life is a delicate balance of incredible opportunities and immense pressures. Anxiety can feel like an unavoidable tax on the ambition and excitement of building a life abroad. But while anxiety is a universal human experience, it doesn't
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